breather

shouting the unsaid.

Notes

Girls are born ‘Formalists’.

..so boys, better be aware! baka kasi nagpa-paasa ka na,hindi mo pa alam, and worst, naka-kasakit ka na,wala ka pang kamalay-malay.

KUNG TROPA KA LANG:

-wag kang maghe-hello, sabay hawak sa likod or bewang, it’s too intimate para sa magkaibigan

-wag kang magbibilin ng “text me when you’re home” kung wala namang concrete reason, dahil the whole time bago sya makauwi, ikaw lang ung iisipin nya

-okey lang magtext ng “goodnight”, pero ung dugtungan mo pa ng “mag-pahinga ka na ha”, it’ll only make her feel extra important

-wag kang bigla-biglang yumayakap, mapapaisip un for sure

-never say “importante ka sakin”, dahil in the first place, hindi naman kayo tropa kung hindi nyo pinapahalagahan ung isa’t-isa eh, verbalizing it would only make her feel special

-okey lang mapag-kwentuhan ung pamilya, pero ung alamin pa ung bawat detalye, parang hindi na dapat

-wag kang magse-set ng dates sa mga tambay nyo, siguradong tatandaan nya un, make it random, ung wala lang talaga

KUNG BOYFRIEND KA NAMAN:

-when you’re busy, you must find time and way to make her feel remembered and missed

-hold her hands as often as possible, it makes her feel secure

-spell-out I-L-O-V-E-Y-O-U, hindi labyou, luv u, i lab u, or whatever, it’s more realistic kapag spelled-out

-never ignore her, in times na wala sya sa mood, konting yakap at lambing lang okey na un

-pag badtrip sya sayo, joke around-make fun of yourself, hindi ka naman matitiis nun eh, kapag ngumiti na, tsaka ka mag-sorry

<3 <3 <3